Thursday, 3 May 2007

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How to find solutions to problems

I have just sent out my monthly Busy Mums Bulletin. It is always an opportunity to have a think and try and put something which I think people like me may find useful and informative.

I thought it might be useful to put this excerpt into my the Busy Mums Blogg - for my entry today. You never know someone somewhere with a problem may find it a good way of tackling something which to date they have drawn a blank with.

I was once away at sales conference and speaking to a very successful man. And when I say successful - he seemed very financially successful to me, but more importantly, successful in the personal sense. He was self assured with clear personal values and integrity. Someone who I had a real sense of admiration for on many levels.

This prompted me to ask him what was his secret of success. He said to me "Recognise that every problem has not one solution but many - it will open up your life"

I have always remembered that and I really do now try hard to adopt that philosphy, when I come up against some problem or challenge.

I write down the problem and then all of the solutions I can think of. It does not matter how stupid or outrageous the solutions are - I write them down anyway.

I am not quite sure what happens - but this somehow seems to open up another creative window in my mind and from that appears even more solutions I had not thought of before. The end result, is a path I had not considered, or a "combination solution" which I would not have thought of, if I had not taken these steps. I owe that man a big thank you for his advice.

So next time you have a problem or challenge. It does not matter what area of your life it is - it could be work, relationships, money, or your family....

Try it - it works.

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Tuesday, 1 May 2007

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Help for Busy Mums with "their work-life balance"

Do you find yourself juggling all the people and projects in your life?

Do you think you need help with your "work life balance"?

As a busy working Mum of four children (and more recently three step children), I do my best to juggle all the people and projects in my life but sometimes not quite as successfully as I would like.

I set up the Help for Busy Mums website because I wanted to create a resource that parents can go to, keep up to date with what is going on in the world of parenting. Alongside that, I offer coaching and personal development to corporate clients and individuals.

Coaching is not counselling or therapy of any kind. It is the opportunity for you to work or get support on things which are important to you in your life in a objective and confidential environment, where no one is going to judge or make decisions on your behalf.

Sometimes you are so busy rushing about you aren't able to stand back and objectively work out how you can make changes which will lead to you feeling happier less worried and having time for the things most important to you.

As the Home Page of my site states "Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least". But sadly for many of us they are.

In corporate terms this roughly translates to productivity and a happy work force

So if you you find yourself worrying that you do not seem to have enough time in the day?.

Your priorities are constantly going out the window?

Or maybe you are losing site of what is really important to you. Then you might want to consider contacting us at http://www.helpforbusymums.com

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